awhile back i thought that i could be pans then i changed my mind because i noticed i like guys problem is that i dont care about what there body is or whatever but than i noticed that im okay with other sexes too if they arent feminine but i prefer biological males still and transguys (like me) so i have no idea anymore....opinons? also i go back and forth every now and then if that helps?? oh and ive been identifying as gay for quite a while now ive only just gone back to questioning it...AGAIN!
As I'm sure you've read on the forum many times, labels really aren't as important as just being comfortable with who you are. That's why I just say "bisexual" as my orientation, even though the reality is a lot more complicated. That being said, if you do want to find the best label for yourself, pansexual still seems like a good choice to me. If you want to get really specific, I know that people who are attracted to women and effeminate men sometimes call themselves "femmesexuals". From what I can gather from your post, you are more or less the opposite of that, someone who is attracted to men and more masculine women. I don't really know what the word for that would be, maybe "mascusexual"?
Ok I consider myself straight but I have fallen for my friend who is a lesbian. I sometimes find women I see on TV attractive but have never fallen for a woman before. I tried to tell her how I feel but I was nervous and I screwed it up. Should I just try to kiss her and see what happens? I know she had a crush on me before. Scared and confused
@annonemus thanks but the thing is I'm not really attracted masculine sort of guys I like pretty boys so yay! More confusion! @archerrose it should go okay if you just tell her your feeling right from your heat trust me and even if she says no you'll still be friends