Hello! I am a 16 years old boy from Bulgaria. So I started being attracted to men like 2 years ago and I still am. I started wondering on my sexuality tho, when I saw some cute girl making music parodies. I watch girls streaming games all day and I find them really cute. Tbh I've dreamt of having a boyfriend, but here is really hard to do so. Also, I get turned on by men. Straight porn does not turn me on. Can anyone help me?
Well that is a tough one to crack. My experience of finding sexuality has been similar. I was a self declare bisexual for a few years. I would dream of having intercourse with men and women. We should look towards our sexuality by our conscious thoughts and its product. In this example let me use a dream as a product. Our dreams itself is shape by our conscious and unconscious thoughts, so to get anywhere we need first realize that sexuality is develop alongside gender identity. We must first see which gender envelop or covers another more in our thoughts. For example if Erika has a weak attraction to girl and only lust for straight porn, and she enjoys having many romantic imaginative life as a female then perhaps she is not all that bisexual. All in all find the gender that you feel embodies you, do not look at the hardest gender and the easiest gender and expect to fulfill none or all characteristic. Personal choice in the matter is really important, but at the same time you at your leisure can always find a psychological therapist or counselor with lgpt relation to help you as well.
well, you've got a whole lot of experiences ahead of you, and it will get clearer with time and experience. But just going on where you're at right now, it sounds like you are sexually attracted to men, like gays and bi's are. As far as the girls, well, you can look at girls and thing they're cute, and like looking at them, and yet sexually there is just no real attraction. and that would suggest that you may just be gay. but don't worry so much at your age about finding a label. just go with whatever feels right, and remember that no orientation is better than another (though personally, I feel lucky that I'm gay!!!) (&&&)
