hi, i am currently struggling with trying to figure out what i am. i currently have a girlfriend and i really like care about her but the problem is i am also attracted to other dudes and i get turned on by them and i enjoy fantasizing about them but i can see myself doing sexual things with the boys but not my girlfriend but i also cant see myself in a relationship with a boy.
So you can see yourself doing sexual things with boys, but have you had any feelings for them? What is that you like about your girlfriend? Do you like her for who she is as a person? Do you find those sexual thoughts with boys pleasurable or does it bother you when you fantasize about them? You can't "see" a lot of things when you're confused, buddy. Clear your head, take a moment, and figure out what is it that you like about either gender.
