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Afraid of liking guys?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Nightdream, Jan 8, 2015.

  1. Nightdream

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    I've been thinking a lot about my sexuality lately and I noticed that I've been afraid of having attraction to men. I don't know exactly why. It could be bad experiences with men, it could be because I'm just not attracted to guys at all. I don't know how to tell the difference between both. Any advice?
     
  2. Fallingdown7

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    I'm pretty much solid kinsey 6 and I had the same problem. It could either be the idea that you're gay and just getting comfortable with it so the possibility that liking men is terrifying (since it invalidates what you thought) or you actually like men and are bi but are scared of it because you got comfortable with your sexuality before.
     
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    I used to believe I was bi before, but since I never had any attraction to guys I find it to be pretty unlikely. I've been having a few thoughts about doing oral on guys, could that mean something?
     
  4. Fallingdown7

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    Maybe you're just curious?
     
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    I've been wondering that.