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Am I gay or bi? I need help.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Smitty142, Jan 10, 2015.

  1. Smitty142

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    I'm confused about my sexuality. I've always been a little bit feminine, never really had close guy friends and always looked up to women more than men. However, I've only had 4 crushes on girls my entire life (I'm 20). But I've done a lot of sexual experimenting with guys and like it. I've only kissed a girl once and I remember it not feeling like anything. Growing up, I used to go online and look up pictures of guys' bulges, celebrities shirtless and watch gay porn. But I could still get off to straight porn then.

    Now, I'm only turned on by gay porn and have emotional, physical and sexual attraction to guys. I kinda have a crush on this girl at my university but after I hang out with her, I'm trying to find a guy to hook up with. My attraction to girls has decreased while my attraction to guys has increased. When I'm in public, I never really notice girls' boobs and butts. However, I notice guys with fit and strong bodies. Whenever I have sexual dreams, they're always about guys. I understand that sexuality is a spectrum and that I shouldn't put labels on myself, but what does it sound like to you?
     
  2. omnisexual

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    It sounds like you're gay but with some exceptions. I think the word for it would be homoflexible, since I know heteroflexible means you're mostly straight but with exceptions. Hope this helps :slight_smile:
     
  3. Pinky

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    Sounds like you're gay.