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sexual attraction but not emotional.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by ThirdEyeGaze, Jan 11, 2015.

  1. ThirdEyeGaze

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    for some reason i find myself physically attracted to both men and women but not really interested in having an emotional connection with either . is this normal? :dry:
     
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    Normality and conformity are overrated. :dry:
     
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    yeah, it´s normal, maybe you´re just so confused that your emotions are suppresed, try to wait and relax and you´ll see
     
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    Couldn't agree more.

    But really, if you're physically attracted to both men and women, then you'll find that special someone someday, no need to rush it. You won't be interested in a lot of things until time passes by. I was never interested about getting a girlfriend back when I was 14, but now there's a girl that I'd love to date.

    Time will tell.
     
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    Get this more often with men probably because the guys I meet only want sex. Besides, I'm very anxious so maybe I'm the problem.
    Never had a relationship so I'm biased. I feel more comfortable with girls, so there's more "emotion" there.
     
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    I'm sort of the opposite of xylaz. Though I prefer to be in relationships, and I'm not the sort of extrovert to go around looking for hookups, I'm less emotional, and I tend to find myself running on a treadmill to keep up with more emotional parters. That tends to mean running faster with women especially... with even men who are more emotional than average it's still easier.
     
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    I have romantic and physical attractions to both sexes, but not sexual, so yes it's normal :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: What's considered normal anyway...