Hey everyone!I need some serious advice.I realised I am gay about 3 years ago altough I had some innocent exprience with girls since child.That is even 'sex' but really innocent and I wasnt concious this is it.later Í had expierience with boys but only kissing and i didnt like it much.then i told myself i like girls and had my first gf that i was so happy with and had serious sex that i loved.but we broke up cos she was sick of jelaousy.we were 8 months.after her i didnt have nobody although i had some girl crushes but recently im thinking of rough feelingless sex with old guys that n6 one normally finds atractive.what does it mean?please help me!i also used to watch porn :/
You might have a look here: Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender? There is romantic and sexual attraction... You might be bisexual, with a romantic preference for women. Your dreams might be a fantasy, fueled by porn. How would you feel if you would get to know a girl, see if you can go along, and take it from there ? (*hug*)
But how it comes I l'ike' men no one normally would? I am afraid to fall in love again but this questioning kills me...
It might be just an image of the act itself... driven by porn images... as you describe it, there are no romantic feelings involved. From your other thread concerning casual sex with women, you might think a bit what you would like from a partner, if you feel you are ready. Daydreaming a bit, not excessively but a bit, and thinking about what you want... the core of it, maybe making a few notes. It might help getting a clearer picture of what you would like in a partnership. This might make it easier for you to attract a partner you like. Communication is important, communicating ones feelings and needs... (*hug*)
