I don't usually do things like this but I feel desperate...I have not known how to get off since first going through puberty and now I have my boyfriend who was the first to get me to orgasm. ...in only missionary. We are strongly attracted to each other but I am too nervous to get "freaky" like any guy would want so that I would also be pleasures in the process. Can someone please help me?
Its ok to ask questions... you might have a look here: http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/what-pre-orgasmic Just relax... enjoy yourself... and take your time... women need a lot of foreplay... kissing... caressing... many say they need 20 minutes... you probably know what you like, so communicate and tell him... there are a few positions that help women achieve orgasm... one possibility is to stimulate the clit during intercourse, with fingers or a vibrator... one is to put a pillow under her buttocks, so that her pelvis is tilted, and her gspot is stimulated during intercourse... another one is the girl riding position, where she can control depth and angle... many women prefer having an orgasm before intercourse, you might show him or tell him what you like... (*hug*)
