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There's this girl...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Imtherunner17, Jan 17, 2015.

  1. Imtherunner17

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    So,about a year ago I started crushing on this girl.And it was a hardcore crush like the kind of crushes I had on boys and it scared me a lot.I figured out she was a lesbian that she has a girlfriend and I still feel the same about her,it's my senior year and all I wanted was to have one last blow out before I graduate. But all I can do is think about her,there's times when I can stop this feeling when I can stop thinking about her. Then it comes back again same as it was,sometimes stronger. The thing is I have a boyfriend too I love him but I keep thinking about her constantly, like it feels like she's the one I want to be with.I've never talked to her really, and I just don't know what to do because it feels like I'm never going to get over her and I want to figure out who I am because it's driving me insane I'm just so scared.If anyone can help I'd appreciate it.
     
  2. jay777

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    You might have a look at this:
    Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender?

    There is romantic and sexual attraction...

    Well it seems you have a partner, and she has a partner.

    Would it be a possibility if you would invite her to a talk... tell her that you might have feelings for women, too... and talk with her about how she figured out she is lesbian...

    this way you could learn a bit about yourself, and you could lose a romantic image of a crush, seeing her as she is. All on a friendship basis.
     
  3. Imtherunner17

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    Thanks for the advice I might have to try that.