So,about a year ago I started crushing on this girl.And it was a hardcore crush like the kind of crushes I had on boys and it scared me a lot.I figured out she was a lesbian that she has a girlfriend and I still feel the same about her,it's my senior year and all I wanted was to have one last blow out before I graduate. But all I can do is think about her,there's times when I can stop this feeling when I can stop thinking about her. Then it comes back again same as it was,sometimes stronger. The thing is I have a boyfriend too I love him but I keep thinking about her constantly, like it feels like she's the one I want to be with.I've never talked to her really, and I just don't know what to do because it feels like I'm never going to get over her and I want to figure out who I am because it's driving me insane I'm just so scared.If anyone can help I'd appreciate it.
You might have a look at this: Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender? There is romantic and sexual attraction... Well it seems you have a partner, and she has a partner. Would it be a possibility if you would invite her to a talk... tell her that you might have feelings for women, too... and talk with her about how she figured out she is lesbian... this way you could learn a bit about yourself, and you could lose a romantic image of a crush, seeing her as she is. All on a friendship basis.