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Am I gay?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by amigayihopeso, Jan 18, 2015.

  1. amigayihopeso

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    Hi. before i watched gay porn i had a semi hard penis. when i watched gay porn 2-3 times (18-19 yr old guys), i got 2-3 erections 5 min between. am i gay? id also have sex with a woman tho so i might be bi. what do u guys think?
     
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    First of all, I'd advise you to take it slow. Sexuality is not something to be rushed. Take your time.

    Second, it depends highly on your age. How old you are can dictate many things.

    Third, watching gay porn might, as you have said yourself, that you're bisexual, taking into consideration that you would have sex with women. Give it some more time, put your thoughts into an orderly fashion.

    Also, keep in mind, you are you; labels are something used by the society to categorise masses but is most certainly not something you need to rush into.
     
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    You might be gay,you might be bi or you might not be either.Only you can answer that.Its something that in time you will work out for yourself.It took me about 3 years to know that i was definitely gay.Theres no rush.
     
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    Porn is definitely NOT a valid indicator of someones' sexuality. You're most likely turned on by the sexual acts portrayed in porn, not the genders of those involved. Porn is porn regardless of the people involved. I think you're probably over-thinking it...
     
  5. amigayihopeso

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    So i'm not gay? Im pretty sure I am ...
     
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    This comes back to what i said.Only you can provide the answer to that.Personally,altho i agree with what Dr. Rorschach said,i cant imagine any straight men even watching gay porn let alone enjoying it.But i could be wrong
     
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    While this is for you to decide, porn isn't a helpful indicator. Gay porn (Male/Male) is very popular with the lesbian community for one, and there are straight men who enjoy it too. Along with straight girls and gay men who enjoy lesbian porn. It doesn't always mean anything.
     
  8. amigayihopeso

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    Hi. i watched some gay porn again. got 2 erections out of two. also watched a woman having sex, got an erection - watched a naked woman, got an erection. So idk guys. I think i might bi...