I've been questioning a lot lately. When I was younger I liked guys, but then from my second year in high school I got a crush on a teacher who was a woman, this really confused me. From then I got more crushes on women, I don't really get a lot of crushes on guys anymore. I have a crush on a girl now and when I see them I get butterflies, I've never really felt like this about a guy before. So now I get crushes on mostly girls and not many guys. I don't know if I'm a lesbian or bi?
Don't worry about labels if they are too confusing. By definition, though, if you like guys, even if you like girls more, you are bi. If you like girls only, you are lesbian. You may choose the word that you feel more confortable with.
At the moment, if you're still feeling attraction to guys, I'd say Bisexual, prefers women, but only you can choose how to define yourself Don't wait for anyone else's verification of who you are
I agree with ForNarnia and Chiroptera. Bi would be pretty accurate at this point. That's what I felt comfortable with until recently. And we're talking 40 plus years. So just enjoy the ride, Whatever you're comfortable with.
I would say bi but also remember that sexuality can be fluid. You might find that you no longer have feelings for men anymore, even though you used to, and that's fine. Or you might find you fluctuate between preferring men and preferring women and that's okay too.
You seem bisexual attraction more towards girls. Only when you have dated a guy you will know if you totally prefer females only then you would be lesbian or you like both.
