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potential first date... maybe?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by SomeLeviathan, Jan 24, 2015.

  1. SomeLeviathan

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    so I've hung out with this particular guy a few times, a person I know from college. He's bi and single as far as I know. We've made some plans to hangout at this game store to play card games for a while tomorrow and then get dinner afterward.

    I'll be up front that I haven't dated in a few years, as PTSD makes it hard for me to get close to people. Are there any ways I can subtly hint to him I'm interested while we're playing games or during dinner?

    Neither of us specified that the dinner plans were a "date" so to speak.

    Advice on how to conduct myself other than to just "be myself" and ask him questions about his major and stuff? I'm in political science and he is getting a minor in polisci, so there is at least some overlap in interest and conversation.

    also I guess the last quesiton would be should I ask him ahead of time if it's a "date" or not, or just sort of read the signs as the day progresses (I'm not very good at that, so advice would be great)?
     
  2. Young Blood

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    I'd say do some subtle flirting while you're out. Don't ask. I always find it weird when people ask. If you do some subtle flirting, that should send a message :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: