I'm married to a beautiful woman, whom I love. She knows I'm bi because I came out to her in Novemebr (some of you know my story). We talk about it sometimes, and it's less of a big deal to her than it was at first, because she set some very clear boundaries. I can masturbate all I want, but that's it. No exploring of any kind with anyone that isn't her. But sometimes I really really really want a dude. I get very turned on by men. I want to explore so bad. But I can't without jeopardizing my marriage. And I do t want to do that. And a threesome or open marriage is out of the question. My question is, how do you that are married deal with these "cravings"? Or people that have been single for a long time and dont go around "exlporing" because it's dangerous to hook up with strangers. How do you go about and deal with it? Or do you give in somehow or another?
There are really no ways to turn off your cravings. Some days you will always crave more than others. The only way to deal with your cravings is one day at a time.
