Hello everyone! well first let me apologize for the length lol I'm completely new to EC but have gone through a few threads and really love the community I thought this would be a good place to ask honest questions and finally get real answers. I know im not at all alone in this situation but I've never told a soul about my curiosity and am not ready to make open. I hope people here are able to share relatable situations and help me in my own sexuality. I am 21 in college straight and do love women but I've always had a fascination with other people's cock I would say maybe 8th or 9th grade,at first just thoughts and ideas which turned to fantasies of giving oral then later went to completely indulge in the fanatsy of full sex with a man and took a liking to gay porn. however never did anything with another or been in a position to be comfortable Enough to actually follow through mainly because I have virtually zero ties to the gay community i don't know where or how to meet like minded gay people I've attempted online thing to remain anonymous it wasn't a complete loss but most people want that quick hook up and like I said I want to feel comfortable first so I thought speaking with actual people with my situation would be the best. Although I've never spoken about it my curiosity has reached a point where I know I WILL one day have sex with a man and as much as I really want to I have no way to go about it and also be discreet. I'd really like to know where can I meet open minded gay or bi males to actually befriend and get to know? I want make real friends to be open with. Just being in a nice chill environment with good people will help me open up. And what should I really expect everything is so new and makes me nervous but that also let's me know it's something I truly want to try. Has anyone had a similar situation and if so how did you go about solving it? If anyone has any advice it would be greatly appreciated thank you!
see if your high school or college has a gay club you can attend. they dont bite, and lots of straight firends go there to support their gay friends. the problem really is there are a lot of guys in ur shoes, once some people find out im gay ive had lots of striaght guys want to experiment or who were just horny. hope this helps
There are a few ways you can meet people. Try an LGBT club at school or some sort of support group. Beyond that, online dating sites like ***, ******* or ****** are all places to meet guys. It sounds like you need a sounding board to get these issues & feelings off your chest. Many schools cover the cost of counciling or support groups. Seek one out at a local campus and try to meet some people to talk to.
I really suggest using the mobile applications but NOT the seedy, hook-u[pones. Unfortunately I think it is against site rules to say mobile app names but think of the very most common one. You can meet a wide variety of guys and it is very popular among bi-curious or bisexual males. Good way to get comfortable and not have to physically place yourself out there.
be careful. once you have sex with men, you might not ever be able to give it up. and then you could become "questioning." OK, I'm being a little tongue in cheek, but honestly I think that experimentation is a good thing at your age, and definitely before getting married. You will probably learn something new about your sexuality, even if it is just a better sense of being straight. As far as my personal experience, I thought that I was straight when I was 21. I'm not! Good luck.
