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Bi.... Maybe?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by abimaybe, Feb 19, 2015.

  1. abimaybe

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    Hey. I'm not really sure what I am. I've always kind of assumed I was straight just because that's how I was brought up. I've only had crushes on guys but I figured I could recognize attractive girls. But now I'm not so sure. I have a HUGE crush on my best friend and I know she is bi. I'm only wondering if this is like a one time thing or if I am bi. I've never dated or kissed anyone and I realize this throws a wrench into the problem, making it a little more complicated, but I really would like clarity.
    I really don't care either way, I have supportive friends and family. I just don't like having this question hanging over me. I'm the kind of person who needs answers even though this isn't something that needs labeling I just hate questioning.
    Any ideas? Thanks!
     
  2. jay777

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    You might have a look at this:
    Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender?

    There is sexual and romantic attraction.. and some people need an emotional connection first...

    And you do not need experience to know.


    Just take the time you need...

    hugs
     
  3. ellyy

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