I'm only 14 and I'm really confused. I have a crush on this girl and the thing is, she's definitely straight. I always thought that I was straight, but once I started to get close to her, I've started to have these feelings for her that I just wanna stop. I can't stop thinking about her and I don't know what to do. I can't imagine myself ending up with a girl cause I've always dreamt of a social norm. future with a guy. I guess I've always had an appreciation of the same sex, but I feel like she's the only one of my crushes (this includes my male crushes as well) that I've actually felt such strong emotions for. I'm scared and I just wanna be her friend. What should I do about this? And am I bisexual? And what can I do to stop liking or thinking about her?
Hey Bbtwoai17 and welcome to EC! :icon_bigg Why did you think of the "social norm"? =) If you feel that you can be happier with a girl than with a guy, then you might regret not acting on it later. =) I cannot tell whether you are bisexual, but chances are that you might not be 100% straight. =) She is straight, according to you, so it's not likely for you to be able to establish a relationship with her. For some people, letting go is the option, but for others remaining friends is the best way. I can't exactly tell you what will work out best for you, it's something you have to decide for yourself. Good luck! :icon_bigg
