I've posted here before about my confusion and some "signs" that suggest that I might be gay. I can pretty much ignore or push aside those signs because they are completely irrelevant and stereotypical. The one thing I can't ignore or explain away is when a gay classmate of mine asked if I was a lesbian and told her that I didn't know. So pretty much, I was wondering if you guys thought that meant something?
It depends because they might be going by stereotypes too. For me, I don't think I look stereotypically lesbian but a friend of mine, before I knew I was gay, raised suspicions/asked me about it four times. I denied it each time but she didn't stop.. She also thought one of our other friends were a lesbian and later on she came out as bi. Obviously, if someone else thinks you're gay it doesn't necessarily mean that you are, but sometimes people can accurately tell these things. Maybe you can ask your classmate why she asked you that question.
Well, some people thought I was gay just because how sassy I was, like "you could pass for gay". I wanted to make everyone laugh so being sassy did the trick. Didn't matter if I was gay or not. I grew up around girls, so sass was all I knew lol. But with that said, there was no indication of me being gay besides the older men attraction and my porn use. I've had crushes son girls, and got hard from them, so this alone makes me believe that I'm at the very least bi, and most likely not gay. But I don't know, trying to be open to change and see where that leads to. I suppose you can say that I'm a very open minded guy, which is probably why I didn't go through the stage of denial (or if I did go through it, was very minimal). I started off with okay, if I do end up gay, then I guess I'll be okay with that. Nothing wrong with that, but the problem now is deciding on if I am or not... Takes time.
