Hi, I've been having problems with determining my sexuality. I have identified with being bisexual for a long while now, and have come out to a few other beings (not family). I always had child crushes on guys since I was little, but as soon as I accepted to myself that I like girls, my sexual/romantic feelings are going away almost completely for men (quite rapidly). And I believe that at some point they will be gone entirely. Does that mean I would be transitioning from a bisexual to a lesbian? Or just having a female preference while being bisexual? I've also heard the term "Bi-Lesbian" is that applicable? Any advice would be much appreciated, thank you <3
Well I know what you are feeling, I came out as bisexual but I experienced diminishing feelings for girls. Have you heard of the Kinsey Scale? I suggest you look it up, but in a nutshell: 0 Exclusively heterosexual 1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual 2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual 3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual 4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual 5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual 6 Exclusively homosexual You could be 3, 4, 5 or even 6. But lables are really for jars!
