I'm a male who considers himself bisexual. I'm attracted to transwomen as well as ciswomen (to men too). Are homosexual men attracted to t-girls that look just like cis-girls? Like, not even the voice is smoky.. without having sex you couldn't tell that it's a t-girl... Or to t-girls at all? Please help, curiosity kills me!
Being a gay guy doesn't include being attracted to transwomen, because they identify as women, and gay men are attracted to men. Hope this helped!
I appreciate your answer, but what about guys in transexual pornography that suck those transsexual actresses off? I don't plan on doing that, I'll keep fantasizing about topping the most feminine of them all, lol... But still my question stands, thank you
It is...depending on a case by case thing, really. Also pornography is in no way an accurate description of how people work.
Transwomen are women. They might be heterosexual, homosexual or bi. They might or might not be into determined sexual practices. Just.Like.Any.Cis.Girl. And if they are pre op, that doesn't mean it's voluntary, so be more respectful. Don't call them ...girls, call them just girls, 'cause that's what they are.
Trans women are women. I actually see more straight men being attracted them than gay men (who rarely are) for this reason. Of course everyone is different. Some straight guys wouldn't be attracted to them for reasons why they aren't attracted to types of cis women. But they still fall under heterosexual attraction field.
Transwomen aren't women, they are men because: 1) They don't have a vagina, never did and never will... a real one, duh 2)They don't have menstrual cycles 3)They don't have xx pairs of chromosomes, which is a typical female karyotype. It doesn't matter what they identify as. A barking cat is not a dog. One can indentify as an elephant, now does that really mean they are one? No... Get it? No offense tho, just setting the record straight. Thanks for the replies tho
We're talking about male and female, not different species. Does a woman cease to be a woman once she enters menopause? You might find this interesting: Causes of transsexualism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
So you're saying born women with androgen insensitivity are also men? Because although they are born with vaginas, they also follow #2 and #3. And their vaginas are smaller than average and non-reproductive too. Oh....and I don't menstruate anymore either, although I did in the past. I wonder if this swipes me of my woman card.
You are wrong. There is a wide chromosomal variance within the human population as whole, which makes that a pretty ridiculous indicator of anything. Gender does not have anything to do with what is between your legs, but what is between your ears(your mind). Additionally not all women menstruate. I find your lack of understanding troubling, and I really hope that you educate yourself on this more fully.
Physical organs pertain to your SEX. Whether you identify as male or female, is your GENDER. They're separate entities from each other, and that is widely accepted fact.
You can certainly think whatever you want, but I hope you will identify yourself to any trans women you might be dating as a person who fundamentally fetishizes them, doesn't care about them at all, and denies them. Even if you lie about your feelings, we'll identify what you really think. ~ Adrienne
Don't feel that you can put 'no offense' after you wrote that. It does not excuse you. As for your 'reasons', do you honestly see women as basically walking wombs with a certain set of chromosomes? And as for your original posted question, no, I would say gay men are usually not attracted to transwomen because they are not men, they are women.
Wow. I'm going to hope that you're just ignorant and not as insensitive as you're coming off to be. The body you are born in does not determine who you are. I promise. A number of notable organisations including the American Psychological Association recognizes that your biological sex, your gender, your gender identity, and you gender expression are different things. Your biological sex is what you referred to in your three reasons. Your biological sex is simply your parts and your chromosomes. Your gender is the expectations society attaches to your biological sex. This is why people who refuse to care about this are called "gender nonconformist." Your gender identity is who you feel you are, regardless of the body you were born into or what people think that body means. Your gender expression is how you choose to express yourself; your style, mannerisms, ect. I would like to add that even your biological sex does not always fall into male or female. Some people are born intersex, meaning that they have biological features that don't fall into any category. Some of these people are men, some are women, some are somewhere inbetween. Your biological sex does not determine your gender identity or expression. Let me repeat that. YOUR BIOLOGICAL SEX DOES NOT DETERMINE YOUR GENDER IDENTITY OR EXPRESSION. Someone who is gender non-conformist is not like a "barking cat." They are who they are. End of story.
