I am REALLY confused. Someone please help me!!~~

It's totally up to you if you want to break up with your boyfriend, it might however might be for the best if you don't find yourself attracted to him anymore. If you're romantically attracted to both men and women but only turned on by women then you might be bisexual not a lesbian. Lesbians aren't normally romantically or sexually attracted to guys, only women. With being bisexual you might be able to feel more for women than you do for guys, but if there is any attraction there it's worth exploring.

I don't know if I answered your question good or not but good luck

 

It's funny because that's what I always tell myself yet I cannot stop questioning myself. I feel like bisexual is probably the best label out there, yet, like any other label, I will question the validity of it shortly after. Of all the guys that I know and always considered friends, I still consider them as friends.

 

I think you should give it time and, when you can, experiment with girls. I know people say that you don't need to experiment to know your orientation, but in the case of people like you who tend to over think things (i'm totally like that too!), reflection on how you feel during certain situations can provide concrete evidence of your sexuality. If you know you enjoyed it, there is no talking yourself out of it and vice versa. Hope the made sense!