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Who am I?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by TheDiscovery, Mar 16, 2015.

  1. TheDiscovery

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    I don't have any idea who I am anymore. I've always just assumed that I was straight. I'm 20 years old and I've only dated a couple of guys. My recent ex and I dated for 10 months and I never liked him touching me. I've never liked any guy touching me really, but I though I was in love with him. I finally realized that I was forcing my feelings and I didn't really love him so we broke up.

    Recently I've been talking to this girl. She's absolutely amazing and I feel such strong feelings that I've never felt towards somebody. She is so sweet and kind and I actually believes the comments that she gives me and I rarely ever believe compliments. The thing is she knows exactly whats she wants. She says that we are the perfect match, but I don't even now who I am.

    Am I a lesbian or do I just like the attention that she's giving me?
     
  2. itsmary

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    Well, your description of your last relationship says a lot about you... You are probably a lesbian or bisexual. Give this girl a try :wink:
     
  3. randomly me

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    Labels aren't that important.If you like her go for it.Maybe this relationship can also help you find the answer to the question you're asking yourself.
     
  4. mindthegap

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    I posted my story a while ago, almost with the same name as you did...aaand your story is so much similar to mine, well, I'm 24 and also questioning myself...but there's a difference, I never dated a guy, I just didn't feel I should. Well, I felt I should but based only on expectations of other people, not because I wanted to...
     
  5. ConfusedSomebod

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    Hi. I'm really younger (14), but I'm going trough something a bit similliar to yours.
    I also dated with boys and always think, that I was straight, but then I started to feel something to one of my friends. (She's bi by the way.) And now I am in the same position as you are.
    But that doesn't matter. I just want to give you the same felling I got from others there, that you are not alone. There are many of us. And no matter where we end, we're not alone.