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Not sure if I'm bi or not

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by CSD Pepelexa, Mar 18, 2015.

  1. CSD Pepelexa

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    A few months ago in school, we had someone come in and talk about sexuality for a PSE lesson and afterwards a group of my friends were asking what sexuality everyone in the group was. When they got to me I just said that I wasn't sure about it yet but they kept asking me questions about it so I felt pressured into saying that I was bi because I was sure that I was since I'd be perfectly happy dating both genders. However now I'm thinking that I might be gay because I only ever feel attracted to guys and whenever I fantasize it's always between me and another dude. Could someone help me because I don't want my friends to think that I'm different to what I actually am. :help:
     
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    If this is what you feel and are comfortable with it, just admit it to yourself and to your friends... Do you feel gay? Like is there no attraction(romantic or sexual) towards females?
     
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    I do have romantic attraction for females, it's just that I'm only ever sexually attracted to guys.
     
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    Sounds like you're a biromantic homosexual! But only you can put a label on yourself and there's no pressure to do so. You do you!
     
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    Figuring out your sexuality takes time and tons of self reflection. Just be honest with your friends and tell them that you're still figuring things out. I think it's great that your school openly discusses all sexualities, I wish my school had!
     
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    Now that I think about it, that sounds about right.
     
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    ---------- Post added 23rd Mar 2015 at 01:00 AM ----------

    kind a weird i guess