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How To Meet Guys?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Foz, Mar 19, 2015.

  1. Foz

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    This is something which has been playing on my mind for sometime now. How can I actually meet someone, I live in the north of Scotland so there's not much up here and I don't want a feminine BF (unless they like standing in a -3ºC forest to watch cars fly by) so that rules the 'obvious' gays out (or maybe I'm being too stereotypical) and if I ask a guy there's a 90% chance he's straight which will end up with a punch to the face!

    What options are there? It just seems that my already narrowed options are further narrowed by the fact I like guys.
     
  2. MattisStuck

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    ...Marry me? Can you even be real?

    I take it you're into Subarus, not Porsches or air cooled VWs, based on the -3C forest and your profile pic. Lucky for me the car community I am a part of is very accepting. I know at least the people I spend time with wouldn't give a shit if I told them I was gay. In fact several friends in conversation at a tech day over a few beers once asked me if I was gay, several said that they thought I was. How is it that straight people figure me out before I do? ... I digress.

    I wish I had some actual advice for you. I don't. Sorry. I'm just glad you exist. :lol:
    But seriously, when you find an answer to your question, let me know.
     
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    I dont have much experience with this, but there are apps you can use to meet people.
     
  4. Foz

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    I am very real! I have a US passport, when can I move in? (!)

    I've got a Subaru Forester XT with about 310-330hp, it's not been dyno'd as my tuner only maps OTR. I just this week order a new gearbox that can handle 600hp so that'll be here in about 3 months :grin:, but I'll only be running it as a max of 450-500 on the track and ~380 OTR. I'm glad I have an equal who exists in this world!

    Here's an (edited) pic you can oogle at :wink:

    It's been lowered 50mm since, I just need some new pics.

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  5. Rapha Lover

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    I have this same question...

    But in my case, I live in a city where have a great LGBT community everywhere. But to start, most part become the internet to meet someone with same sexuality.

    :slight_smile:
     
  6. guitar

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    There are dating websites and apps. If you have a university of community group nearby, see if there are any LGBT support groups. Just being able to talk and engage with fellow LGBT members can be a big help.
     
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    There is a group local to me, however my sister's friend goes so it's just a bit #awks

    So I'd be coming out to go to a group to help with coming out, right!