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Soooo confused...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by yayforthelgbt, Mar 21, 2015.

  1. yayforthelgbt

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    Sexual Orientation:
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    Family only
    :bang: I'm so confused about my sexual orientation. I've always been attracted to guys sexually and I still am. However lately I have become very obsessive about my sexual orientation. I want to keep this short, so if you need more information check my other posts ^-^ Basically today I woke up and I just felt a sudden attraction for girls, and was even turned on by a girl. Suddenly, the idea of dating a girl interests me and I feel like I'm straight. I thought about romantic attraction, who I would want to marry, grow older with etc and I just feel uncomfortable with it being a guy. I have been obsessing about it all day and it annoys me. Maybe my anxiety was true and I just wanted to be gay. I seriously don't know anymore. I just want to know so bad. I don't feel comfortable with the label bisexual. I don't really know why I'm posting this... or what answers I want... I just wanted to tell people. :help:
     
  2. Jax12

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    Have you considered that maybe it's just a thought? If all your life you've been attracted to guys, why not leave it at that?
     
  3. Kenaria

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    You don't always have to limit yourself to one sexuality. Nobody is 100% straight/gay. The best thing to do is just be open and worry free about who you end up with, because all that matters is that you're happy. I wouldn't limit yourself to only dating boys unless you feel the absolute need, because sexuality is fluid, so just let it flow :slight_smile: