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Not having a concrete definition for sexuality?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Magicc, Mar 22, 2015.

  1. Magicc

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    Does anyone else have this problem?
    Lately I've been very confused about my sexuality and I really just haven't been able to find a exact label to define my orientation. I've come to accept that it'll take time and experience to get a better feel of what I am, and I was just curious if anyone else has felt similarly?
     
  2. Jax12

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    I don't know where I am at the moment. I've been questioning constantly, but not sure where it leads. For now, I'll just let my emotions flow and see where it goes. Like you said, experience and time is what we need.

    It turns out that I'm not really a big fan of labels, but I guess the right one will come.
     
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    You don't need to label yourself. If you can't find a fitting label, you don't need one.
    But also, if you need to tell people what your sexuality is, then try queer, it's more of an umbrella term for different sexualities/gender identities, so that might work.
    Hope this helps! :slight_smile:
     
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    No label will ever work for everyone 100% of the time, so don't worry about it! Take the time, when something fits, use it, if it changes, that's normal too!