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Gay Virginity

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Connor86, Mar 24, 2015.

  1. Connor86

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    Just curious how old were you guys when you had sex with the same sex for the first time??? Just curiousss cuz it seems like everyones lost it younger than me. (I'm 16)
     
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    Uh, 20... I feel like 16 is the minimum age I'd want to lose my virginity. Any younger than that and I'd probably feel a bit uncomfortable. Not bashing anyone who lost it younger than 16 of course, but it definitely would not be for me.
     
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    Still haven't.
     
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    15 or 16, but I regret it so damn much. Don't beat yourself up over it just because everyone else does it....I'm beating myself up for not waiting.
     
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    I haven't even kissed anyone yet. I'll be 25 this year. You are not too old.
     
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    Well, I'm over 40... and still a virgin.
     
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    Kind of a personal question dontcha think? :wink:

    No, 16 is not "too young" - there's no such thing. People losing at 14 are usually too immature. Your body might be ready to have sex (especially girls who enter puberty now often before the age of 11 or 12!), but emotionally few people are ready at that age.

    Wait until you feel ready and you're with someone who you want to experience sex with for the first time. I don't view virginity as something sacred or anything like that, but if you're with someone who's using you / going to hurt you (physically or emotionally) it could sully your attitude toward sex. And that's sad because sex has the potential to be a really wonder thing.
     
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    Nineteen here.
     
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    I will be turning 32 on Saturday and have only had sex with two girls and fooled around with others. The most I've ever done with a guy is hold hands in a drunken moment when I was 24. So....no, you're not too young.