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I'm bisexual ,but I act differantley to each sex

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by NathanielB13, Mar 29, 2015.

  1. NathanielB13

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    So I discovered I was Bisexual last year but I've been having trouble with it. See I find it differant when I has sexual feelings towards each sex. With guys I find it easy and I have no type when it comes to guys. However with girls I find it more difficult, first off I am bisexual not curious as I do have sexual feelings toward girls. However the problem is I am very choosy. I can't get attracted to girls in my class only fancy them slightly. The problem is I only get sexualley attracted to girls if they aren't girlfriend material. I feel like this is a warning sign or denial and I don't know what to do. I'm okay with being gay thats why I said I'm bisexual because I like both sexes but what do you think? Sorry it's so long but I need to get all details out
     
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    People can be bisexual and have more of a preference for one gender, it's not like a 50-50 thing. But also, there is two types of attraction and orientations: sexual/physical and romantic/emotional, like how I'm a panromantic lesbian. You could be a biromantic homosexual, or a homoromantic bisexual. Think about what kind of attraction you feel towards each.
    Hope this helps! :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks it really helped as I do have a preferance for males over females but I am still attracted to them. I guess I'm more biromantic when it comes to hetrosexuality but more sexual when it comes to homosexuality. Thanks Noodle72!
     
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    You're welcome, and good luck finding a fitting label! :slight_smile:
     
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    Just changed my sexual orientation to Biromantic Bisexual!
     
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    So I guess it's like saying sexual and romantic attraction don't always line up? And is it more likely for the misalignment of these attractions more common in bisexuals?
     
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    I don't know Jax12, I've just had that problem though with both sexes but I didn't know about being biromantic so it's really helped to clear my head on the matter