Is sexual attraction simply having the "I want to have sex with them" thought? Or am I missing something?
You got it. If you're sexually attracted to someone it means you want to have sex with them. Or, at the very least, they cause you to be sexually aroused.
When somebody arouses you. When you want to touch them, kiss them, *not* because they are a great person and you want to be close to them because of it (for me this was also a reason to want to be physically/sexually close with somebody), but simply because they are hot & they turn you on.
You need to also have feelings for that person sex is better when its with somebody who makes you feel safety and love Because some stright men hook up with gay men they are sexualy turned on by them cause hello guys can be turned on by any physical sexual acts but its better when its with someone you love Men who have sex with men (can be any sexual Orientation are not at all to be compared to men who wants to be with men Can only be who are attracted to men both romanticly and sexualy and want to be with them those are bisexual gay etc..
When you want to have sex with someone basically; when they arouse you to the point you can imagine things with them.
Physical pull to a particular person How strong the pull is depends on how strong the attraction is and whether it's reciprocated!
Hi Jax This is interesting as I'm wondering the same thing. I'm physically attracted to guys, I have a 'type' I love a handsome face, and nice build and body, legs etc BUT I want to do everything with them EXCEPT genital sex, I want to kiss, cuddle, be intimate, romantic, naked together, massage etc My brain and heart are VERY aroused - but penis/libido........... not so. ( Oh an ps pits not a medical problem - I get erect all the time naturally etc. I just find it boring and annoying when guys are so penis (or ass) orientated.) so what I feel IS sexual attraction to guys..... its just that my definition of sex is different I suppose - sex is more that genital stimulation/ejaculation/orgasam or penetration - or it can be if you want! who makes the rules
I prefer kissing/cuddling and just spending time together more than sex. Don't get me wrong sex is obviously great, but something more than that is when I feel alive.
