Today I was trying out being bi. I'm choosing the harder orientation first. It made me anxious like I expected. I kept on trying to fight it. I also felt like I was slightly aroused by looking at guys. I also kept getting thoughts about being a slut and never being able to date girls. Eventually I calmed down. Now it seems like I turned asexual. It doesn't seem like having sex with either gender is that appealing. I thought of an idea. I could make two dating profiles. One that's straight and one that's queer. On my straight profile I'll mention all of my nerdy hobbies. If the guy I'm talking to doesnt share those interests I'll ignore him. On my queer profile I'll hide myself from straight people, but not be as selective. I know it's a bit dishonest, but it's the only thing I feel comfortable with. If I'm going to give guys a try I want to make sure we share a lot of interests and he won't fetishize my sexuality or be sexist.
How about another strategy, sweetie. How about you just enjoy being bisexual because it's fun. I don't see what's "hard" about it. You just like who you like. :3 I agree with avoiding people who are sexist, but you don't need to do elaborate things for that.
