as I described to my therapist my sexuality is weird, like comparing apples to oranges. Primarily with men it is a physical and sexual thing (with exceptions at times) and with women it is more emotional and romantic. The example I gave my therapist is kissing. I have done it with a guy but felt odd about it...yet to perform fellatio on him is gratifying. With a female I do very much like to kiss. So strange.
I am the same way. I have alot of very sexual urges toward men, but not too many are of a romatic nature. On the flip side with woman I become very romantic. I think for me part of this may come from not being with a guy long enough to explore those types of feelings, but Im unsure.