I've been thinking more. I honestly prefer personality than like what gender the person is. I wouldn't mind have sex with a guy, but I'd prefer a girl. Is that pansexual with a preference?
It certainly sounds like pansexual with a preference. The fine line between pansexual and bisexual is the gender relevance, although even then, some bisexuals may not care or have a preference to a gender at all. I believe pansexuals are more into the soul, or in other words attracted to the person rather than the gender. Preference is fine, and in fact may change over time.
I honestly think most people have a slight preference one way or the other. For instance, I am actually more attracted to girls, even though I am currently married to a guy, and I wouldn't actually discredit someone due to their gender. I like to think of it as, the body doesn't matter so much as what's inside. I like minds.
