I'm trying to move towards a more concrete label other than homoflexible. I like guys, but with girls there's something floating around in the distance that always catches my eye (if anyone knows what I'm talking about). For those of you who identify as gay/lesbian, how were you able to figure that out? Do you have any attractions whatsoever to the opposite sex? And I'm not necessarily talking about the "would I have sex with them" factor. I've heard of gay individuals that can appreciate the female body like a painting (or cake, lol), but I don't get it. Talking about this makes me feeling like a Kinsey 4-5, or Bisexual with preference for guys. Thoughts?
It's not that I think of their body as an art or whatsoever but I guess I see it as a fascination. I am gay but I get drawn when it comes to boobs, lol. Though I have tons of girl crushes than guys, I can't say I am sexually attracted to them. I would make out with a girl but only out of curiosity. You think maybe you are still trying to figure out your sexual orientation?
It's quite possible, yeah. I know porn is not a good indicator, but I love scenes where the guy is inserting his penis into the vagina, and I'll put myself in the scene, if that makes sense.
Well.. If its the right guy I guess the way they aren't so dramatic. They also don't take forever to get ready.. At least not the ones I know. I take forever to get ready though so if my future girlfriend takes forever then I don't think it will be much of a problem. I'm just saying its good when someone is ready in less then an hour. Also (though I love women's perfume SO much) guys have some awesome deodorants out there! I like the lynx stuff! I use to steal some off my brother :lol: he had a blue can.
Hmm.... I don't know if there's one thing in particular that I like about women, cos I like everything about the female body, aesthetically speaking (ditto men - don't get why some people are grossed out by bodies, think the body is beautiful). I suppose I like the fact that - generally - it's easier to be friendly/cuddle/emotionally open with women. I'm curious about being with a woman. There's a woman at my work who I find really cute and she seems interested in me (maybe). I've thought about it. But from an abstract POV I find it difficult to imagine that I'd find the experience as sexually exciting as being with a guy. It'd probably end up being more about exploring her pleasure than mine.
I'm with tulipinacup minus the making out. I think women are beautiful and I notice attractive women often. I like the way their bodies look. Butts are great to look at and honestly women have exponentially better fashion than the vast majority of men. It's like a piece of art really. I don't have any desire for women sexually.
I love a big firm ass and the kinds of lingerie or whatever they have on in some porn scenes LOL I love it!!! But gay guys on here, have you ever found women so attractive that you felt the desire to have sex with them and felt "natural" (not "fake") while wanting to do so? If this question makes sense... lol
I just realised that I didn't answer the question but I like how girls manage to do awesome hairstyles
Well, first of all, I love men colognes and perfumes, they smell amazing. Then, I like their clothes, they are much more comfortable. And ofcourse, guys think somehow differently from girls, I admire that.
I have some mild attraction to the opposite sex. The thing is for me it's not very strong and I simply don't enjoy spending time with guys all that much. I don't form close friendships with them(not because I dislike them, I just don't have much interest) and in general I have very strong romantic attractions to women. What it comes down to is that I want to be with women, I enjoy spending my time with them, and any attraction I have for guys is not worth it.
How I figured it out? Although I had/still have a little attraction towards guys, when I see one in the street, I only like him if he is super cute (like Chris Hemsworth style :lol: ) and even then, if I see girl with him (like Chris Hemsworth's wife Elza :lol: ), she has all my attention and I immediately forget there is a guy. Try this 'couple test' maybe it could help. I like men clothes and few perfumes, but it is not enough for me to spend my time with men, I don't feel close to them and comfortable around them.
I am a married man who has only recently accepted my homosexuality. After being with a man I realized that I was just going through the motions with women. I love everything about women it's just that being with a man is so much better for me both physically and emotionally. Sadly I took a long time to figure that out.
^ I do not want to make that mistake, I want to be true to myself, even if that means I'll be happier with a guy.
Well for me, I think women wear clothes very well, they are much better as friends. I also admire women that play sport and are tomboyish in nature. I've never desired women though, men are the ones I desire.
