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Finally figured it out!

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by crystallight268, Apr 16, 2015.

  1. crystallight268

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    So i just came to terms yesterday that i'm a lesbian. I realized that the only reason why i was so scared about being gay and thought that there was a possibility that i was still straight was because i felt like thats what society wanted me to be. Society wanted me to like the opposite sex and not the same sex. well that all changed yesterday. I also realized that boys private parts makes me uncomfortable. I just feel so relieved and my anxiety has lifted from this whole experience.
     
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    I'm really happy for you! Everything will be better now, it must be huge relief to have clear head again.
     
  3. crystallight268

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    It is. Plus, i'm not comfortable being in a relationship with a guy anyway.
     
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    Congratulations! Good that you have come to terms with yourself :slight_smile:
     
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    Realizing/coming to terms that you are in fact gay is probably one of the best moments ever! Congrats, you had your first "oh shit, I'm gay" moment!
     
  6. crystallight268

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    Thanks everyone! And yes I did have my first "oh shit I'm gay" moment lol. But I really couldn't of did this without the help from you guys here at empty closets so I wanna thank you guys! You guys really helped me and I really appreciated it!
     
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    Excellent! I know the feeling, when you're finally okay with who you are.
     
  8. crystallight268

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    Its a good feeling and I'm glad I didn't rush it and that I took my time. All I need to do now is come out.
     
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    I am so happy for you. I know I am not straight and that dicks freak me out but I still am not completely true. I really do like girls but I have a little voice telling me all the things society tells us. Also I know if I am truly a lesbian that my life will get a lot more tense and harder. But you inspire me to keep going forward with all this instead of just going I WILL JUST STAY SINGLE ALL MY LIFE. Good luck coming out <3
     
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    Thank you!