How to figure out your sexuality when youre not very sexual?

So this is making things unclear for me. I rarely get full on crushes on people and im not much of a sexual person. I dont look at someone and think "theyre hot, i'd sleep with them". I spend alot of time in my head, i'm quite introverted and I guess not that "primal". I think im probably gay, but its making things difficult as I dont have very clear indicators. Help?

 

There are many reasons I think I may be gay, but reasons that I doubt too, and I don't want to go in depth about it here because it'll be way too much to read! But I guess i've been questioning for years, something doesn't feel right with guys, it feels forced and very on and off emotionally, I masturbate over the thought of being with a girl, and I like the thought of dating one and think the relationships seem more romantic and like it would "fit" me better. I don't know why but being a guys girlfriend or wife feels weird, I can't explain it. It feels fake, I guess.

Well in the past, if I ever wanted a relationship, the default was that'd be with guys. But when I look at pictures of lesbian couples, it seems nicer, more exciting, less bland. And i've lately been imagining in my head doing romantic things with both guys and girls, and I think girls feels better. This is going to sound weird, and I don't mean to stereotype or bring gender identity into this, but it's like I feel too much of a "guy" on the inside to be with a guy. It's like being straight is being gay! Like, say if you see a really butch woman, and imagine her being romantic with a guy, that odd, unreal feeling you get, that's how I feel thinking of me with a guy. I know that sounds weird, and i'm not bringing gender into this, i'm just trying to demonstrate that mismatch. I wonder if others feel like this. I may post something about that.

And what I just wrote kind of answers Jax12s questions. I guess i'd want to cuddle and kiss with a girl, but still, i'm not sure.

Thank you to you both for answering