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A genderfluid~what exactly?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by comeasyouare, Apr 18, 2015.

  1. comeasyouare

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    So im anatomically female

    And ive recently come out as genderfluid/pangender.

    Now ive always been interested in girls. Would i still be considered a lesbian?

    Thanks to anyone that helps! :wink:
     
  2. PunkRockKitten

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    I'm not entirely sure of this myself but I would lean towards no. My reasoning is that I would consider someone who is FtM and is attracted to men to be gay not straight, even if they are pre-op. As in the term I would use is dependent on the gender someone identifies as and not their body. What you choose to call yourself is really up to you though. If you like the label lesbian then keep using it, as long as you're okay with the implications it has about your gender. A gender neutral term for a person who is attracted to women, in case you might want to use it, is gynesexual.
     
  3. Tai

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    It really depends on what you want. Some genderqueer people use sexuality labels according to their birth sex, and some take it from the approach of: "I like ____."