I'm having trouble fingering out who i am, because i have had a few relationship with guys in the past when in the beginning of the relationship, i was happy but then throughout it i wasn't satisfied with the relationship like i didn't belong in the relationship, but i have kissed a few girls but that was purely because we were playing truth or dare. I've even considered watching porn so i could get a rough idea of who i am, when i watched straight porn i never got aroused by it but with the lesbian porn i did get a bit aroused so i'm so confused because i find guys and girls attracted, i have even fantasied about being in a relationship with a girl (because obviously i have never been in one). When i see a hot girl walk pass i would find her attractive and maybe i would think about her for the rest of the day but the same thing happens when i see a hot guy walk pass. I'm 16 years old and i have been confused about my situation for 2 years now. i did have a crush on one of my best friends because we had so much in common and that we were so close but i just don't understand because i can find a girl attractive and think "wow, she's hot" but i can find a guy attractive and think "wow, he's hot" as well. please can someone help me because i'm so confused x
You could have a look here for a few thoughts that might help you reflect: Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender? And you might look up the kinsey scale... bisexual is a real preference between straight and gay... and there is sexual and romantic attraction... and some people say they need an emotional connection first... so I'd say simply take the time you need... hugs
