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Bisexual/Pansexual

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Jax12, Apr 20, 2015.

  1. Jax12

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
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    So I've been chatting with a guy for around a month now and while we haven't met in person yet, we've been chatting over text and called each other a couple times. I really think I'm falling for him, but that's not where I'm trying to get at.

    You see, it started from sexual attraction. A profile pic of his pic was enough to give me a little hard on down there. But I'm starting to fall for him because of who he is as a person. He's a bit overweight and has a big belly, but even then that doesn't bother me at all.

    He's attractive from a visual standpoint, but I found that I'm even more attracted to him now because of who he is. In fact, before we called each other, I got nervous and while we were talking I found myself lost at words; I didn't know what to say to him. It got better though which is a relief lol.

    Similarly, the same could be same for woman however the sexual attraction isn't as strong as men, and I wouldn't be as nervous in conversations. In fact, the attraction for women is sometimes nonexistent. I think at this point I'm leaning more towards guys, but would you guys say I'm more bisexual or pansexual? Any response/clarification is greatly appreciated.
     
  2. randomly me

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    Depending on who you ask the definition of the difference between the two can be totally different so i guess chose whatever you're more comfortable with.(and being pan doesn't mean people don't have preferences)