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Lesbian but Only Attracted To Trans Women

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by AskewedOptimism, Apr 22, 2015.

  1. AskewedOptimism

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    I've been out for 16 years as a lesbian, but find myself only attracted to transgendered women. My friends tell me I must be bisexual or even pan sexual, but to me a woman is a woman and I admire their beauty just wish I could find one in my area lol
     
  2. Mischief

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    The thing is, bisexuality wouldn't be an option in this situation. I believe (in my opinion) the real thing is just the fact that you're attracted to women, and well, they are in fact women.
     
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    But then why not fancy women who aren't trans or women who are straight..?
     
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    In my opinion you are in fact a lesbian - you may only like trans*women, so what? Other people have preferences too :slight_smile:
     
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    Skoliosexuality? Or am I off?

    ---------- Post added 22nd Apr 2015 at 03:05 PM ----------

    Labels don't define you exactly all the time! Do what feels right :slight_smile:
     
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    It's just a preference of yours I don't think there's much to think about o:
     
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    I'll parrot everyone else and agree, you're lesbian. Girls are girls.
     
  8. Seagypsy

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    But sometimes it's good to explore our preferences to try and understand them better. The OP didn't say she minded the idea that she only likes trans women, she is just questioning herself as to why. I do that too, it's good to explore reasons for our attractions if they can help us to explore who we are, IMO :slight_smile:
     
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    Honestly I don't know. I've never been with a partner that preferred me being trans, but I've never been with one who minded either.

    It might be a fetish, it might be just a preference. I prefer dark haired women, but it's not like it's a fetish ori do any sex stuff to hair, I just find it pretty. When you're with a transwoman, what do you do? Does she have the same effect on you pre and post SRS? (Not that srs makes you more or less of a woman!) Most fetishists seem to lose interest when the transwoman is penis free.

    I'm not trying to pick on the OP, even if this it's a fetish. If it is, and you're up front and honest, and the lady your selling is fine with it, it's aok.
     
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    This, in my opinion, is the best advice for you. (OP)