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Are you a virgin?????????

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by theseboys, Apr 22, 2015.

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  1. theseboys

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    No lost my virginy at 20 to a girl

    guy at 16
     
    #1 theseboys, Apr 22, 2015
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    Re: Are you a virgin???????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????

    No. Lost my virginity at 16 to a guy
     
    #2 JohnX, Apr 22, 2015
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    Nope, lost it at 18 to a guy.
     
    #3 Jax12, Apr 22, 2015
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    Re: Are you a virgin???????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????

    I think the concept of virginity is outdated and too ambiguous to be relevant. For the record, I've had sex with four people, but there are people who'd say I'm a virgin as I've never had PIV sex, so yeah.
     
    #4 Maddy, Apr 22, 2015
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    Yes and plan to be until my wedding night
     
    #5 Ashleigh16, Apr 23, 2015
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    Nope! Lost my V-Card when I was 20, to the woman I plan on spending my life with. :slight_smile:
     
    #6 DougTheBicycle, Apr 23, 2015
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    Re: Are you a virgin???????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????

    Yes, but I am still young so not a big deal :slight_smile:
     
    #7 Eye Shine, Apr 23, 2015
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    Re: Are you a virgin???????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????

    Completely agreed.

    I did not *lose* my virginity. As I gained sexual experience, it slowly faded away. It's far from lost. I know exactly where it is; all the little (mostly) yummy places it dispersed to. And I am much happier as a person and more in touch with myself without it than I ever was (or could have been) with it.
     
    #8 biAnnika, Apr 23, 2015
  9. Fallingdown7

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    I've never slept with anyone, but I don't consider myself a virgin because virginity is a misogynist heterosexist social construct I refuse to believe in.
     
    #9 Fallingdown7, Apr 23, 2015
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    Re: Are you a virgin???????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????

    I am bothered by the number of question marks used in this thread's title.





    Anyway, I have never had any sexual contact with anyone.
     
    #10 nohalos, Apr 23, 2015
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    Nope. I lost my virginity at 16 to a guy.
     
    #11 Malkai, Apr 23, 2015
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    Yep, sure am...and I'm old too, will probably die a virgin as well. but I'm fine by that..
     
    #12 SimplyJay, Apr 23, 2015
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    Re: Are you a virgin???????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????

    ^This^
    But yes..................................................................................
     
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    Re: Are you a virgin???????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????

    Me too...

    But no, I am not a 'virgin'. I lost it at 19 to my first boyfriend after we'd been dating...I think it was between 3-5 days. I had very little attatchment to the concept and I still don't give a rat's :***: about it.
     
    #14 CJliving, Apr 24, 2015
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    Yes, I am.
     
    #15 Matto_Corvo, Apr 24, 2015
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    Re: Are you a virgin???????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????????????

    No I haven't had sex with anyone yet. In my opinion it isn't "are you a virgin" but "have you found the one?". I believe that you're a quote on quote "virgin" until you find your forever person, because your first time with that person is the one that really matters and after that all the other times don't really matter so much. Sorry.. I'm a serious romantic
     
    #16 gabroxs20, Apr 24, 2015
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    yes and cool with it I'm only 16
     
    #17 mydancerslife, Apr 24, 2015
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    I had PIV sex when I was 17. I was drunk in a club and it was such an awful experience - I wasn't attracted to the guy at all and tbh I didn't feel anything, but I was bored and my self-destruction tendencies were at their peak. It's one of the reasons why I started to really question my sexuality btw. In RL I disregard that experience and whenever asked I say I'm a virgin, though there's really no need to, since I quite fit the stereotype, haha.
     
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    Yes, I am a "virgin" and I do not plan on performing sexual acts with anyone in the near future.
     
    #19 Theo Weiss, Apr 24, 2015
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    Yeah, I haven't performed any close to sexual acts and choose to remain this way until I am engaged or married.
     
    #20 loveislove01, Apr 25, 2015
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