Questioning sexual and romantic orientation without experience?

Maybe your bisexual. However, without you ever exploring the possibility with someone of the same sex. It would be very hard to tell for certain. I think the best thing you could do for yourself is find someone of the same sex and find out how deep your feelings go. When I was young before I was ready to accept myself. I dated women and I even felt attracted to them sort of. It was just the idea of not being alone I was attracted to I think. Once I dated a man for the first time. That was it. Everything clicked and made sense. I finally knew what was missing from the relationships I had before. For me dating women was just what I thought I was supposed to do an acquired taste if you will. I found someone I could be friends with and accepted that as romance. However, once I dated a guy for the first time. It wasn't simply friendship but a deep romance with passion. It was the whole package instead of a friend I was being intimate with like it was when I dated women.

 

I feel similarly, I'm sexually and romantically attracted to women and am sometimes romantically attracted to men. But I'm really not sexually attracted to them...so I consider myself to be gay. I've never been in a relationship with a woman though. I think it would be easier to know if I had that experience...but the lesbian label feels right. Because if you're bisexual shouldn't you feel sexual attraction to men too? I don't know...

 

I going through something very similar to you. I'm questioning whether or not I'm bisexual, but I've never been in a relationship with a woman before. I think my lack of experience is the main reason I'm still unsure about my sexuality. I think the best thing to do is to find someone of the same sex and see how you feel about it. It might help you confirm your feelings with other women and help you come to terms with your sexuality.

 

I have absolutely zero experience romantically or sexually with either gender, through that didn't stop me at all from questioning my sexual orientation and eventually coming to terms with the fact that I am bi.