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My thoughts made me question my sexuality again..

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by bigspeakers, May 1, 2015.

  1. bigspeakers

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    Well, I'm here again. This is hard because I have kinda excepted being bi/pansexual, but (I haven't come out to all my friends yet) when I think about telling about my sexuality to others, I start to think about what everyone else would think about me and then I get disgusted about girls. And the second thing is, that I think about my sexuality every day. It's been now over two months of that when I started to questioning my sexuality. I still have feelings towards girls, but my mind messes up everything.
    So is it normal that I think about this every day, and
    is this just that I'm not fully excepted my sexuality or am I straight?

    ---------- Post added 2nd May 2015 at 06:54 AM ----------

    Tell me, if you don't get anything about that text. I'm not from English speaking country so my English is not the best. I have moved back to Finland couple weeks ago so I don't live in England anymore. And let me fix: I meant accepted not excepted. XD
     
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    It's normal to worry about what others think of you. But what if there were no other humans on earth? Which sex/gender would you be attracted to?

    I have also had stretches of weeks where I thought of my sexuality every day. I especially think about it when I see an attractive person. So I think that's normal, but I probably wouldn't think about it so much if I knew for sure what my sexual orientation is.
     
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    I'm start doubting myself when I feel like telling people that I'm bisexual or gay, so I know where you're coming from. I think that people are always judging me and so this always makes me doubt my orientation. I'm still trying to accept myself as I am, so you're not alone.
     
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    Thank you for answering! :slight_smile: This helped me figure out some of my thoughts. :slight_smile:
     
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    I go through times where I think about my sexuality all the time and get depressed because I don't know for sure what my sexuality is. I'm feeling a little better about it these days but it definitely happens.
     
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    Thank you for answering :slight_smile: