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Pansexual or Bisexual?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by BisexualQueen, May 13, 2015.

  1. BisexualQueen

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    So recently I've been questioning whether I was bisexual or pansexual. I've always identified bisexual before, but I didn't know the difference between the two. So I'm just attracted to whoever I'm attracted to regardless of gender. I don't limit myself to only guys and girls. I do realize that only I can decide whether I'm bi or pan, but does it sound like I'm pansexual? Also, does having a preference towards one gender make me not able to be pan?
     
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    To me that sounds like pansexual with a preference for one gender. :slight_smile: Having a preference does not exclude you from identifying as pansexual, it works the same as bisexual but with more than two genders.
     
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    The only difference between Pansexual and Bisexual is this;-

    Bisexual - Two or more genders. (May include non-binary)

    Pansexual - All genders. (Definitely includes non-binary)

    Pansexual is pretty much a more specific version of Bisexual, you are free to use whichever you want :slight_smile:
     
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    ^what the ladies said.

    I might add my own experience, I used to id as bi too, then I was like, wait a sec, I like trans guys and girls and tomboys and everyone else who aren't binary too! well Pantastic pixie it is!

    cheers <3
     
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    This may be my "biological male" side talking, but it's just sexuality, right? So if we're just talking about physical attraction, we don't know a person's internal gender before getting curious about them in the first place. Personally, I find myself attracted to a lot of people with androgynous-looking sexuality, and there's a bit of variation.

    If we look at sexuality as a spectrum, maybe some people like both ends but not the middle. I like the middle, with a sort-of broad sweep.
     
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    Thanks everyone :slight_smile: I'll probably be thinking about identifying as pansexual because it seems I might be.