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bisexual? gay? straight? I don't know

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Theshreks, May 21, 2015.

  1. Theshreks

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    Hi I've been questioning my sexuality pretty everyday since I was 15. I'm 17 now. I've always liked girls but around 14 I did have toughts about the same sex. Nothing super sexual just like "who am I really watching in this porn?" Or "hey he's kinda cute." I didn't give it much thought at the time because I was most attracted to girls. I do think I have some level of anxiety and it hasn't been helpful during this time.

    I was sexting with a female of mine in late 2013 to see if I was gay or not. She sent me... things and I enjoyed it a lot. You'd think that would be it right? Boom I'm not gay. Nah i kept worrying and stressing. Now I can't even sext with girls like that. I don't know If it's anxiety and wondering if I really like girls or just not liking them. I do admit I like guys but I don't feel gay. Not 100% at least. I feel I'm in middle. I know I'm not 100% straight but I think I'm 100% gay either.

    I would like to date girls someday and do...things. I know some people say you should experiment but it's gonna be awhile before I can experiment with either gender. Yeah this just kind of rambling. Ask questions and I can answer better.
     
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    You could be bisexual, but you can never know until you experience something that says you are or not. Either experimenting, dating a guy, finding a guy you end up liking a lot, etc. You cant just decide if you're gay, straight, or bisexual without some sort of proof you aren't or are. From what I read, I can tell you are not gay. You enjoy girls. But until you experience something like that, but with a guy, and see if you like it or not, you can not be sure. I bet at some point, most people questioned who they were watching in a porn. Most people have probably found a member of the opposite sex cute or attractive before. That doesn't mean they are gay or bisexual or lesbian or anything. It is whether you enjoy it with the other sex etc. Sorry if this didn't help much. This is jut how I'm thinking.
     
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    No it did thanks for answering
     
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    It sounds like you have interest in men and women. That is usually defined as bisexuality (or pansexuality).
     
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    Yeah I know. I admitted that I liked both last week and felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders.