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Gay/straight????

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by anon991, May 26, 2015.

  1. anon991

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    About a month ago I was totally convinced i was bi or leaning towards gay, but now theres a girl I intensely like and every time I'm with her my attraction for men seems to decrease. Is this natural or am i perhaps straight after all?
     
  2. Thebazixel

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    It seems pretty natural to me (I'm not an expert, obviously, so take what I say with a grain or two of salt because it may be wrong) that when you like someone, your attraction to others lessens regardless of gender.
     
  3. Fallingdown7

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    Can't you be bisexual with fluctuating preferences?
     
  4. bigspeakers

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    I think it's normal, because it happens to me all the time too. I'm pansexual, but if I fall for someone I usually start to shun the opposite sex.