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Gay but hmm

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by bwayinabox, May 26, 2015.

  1. bwayinabox

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    Location:
    Vienna
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    All but family
    I keep asking myself 'what if' and putting myself in scenarios and stuff when it come to some girls. Because I always hang out with girls, I've noticed that my affection for them (in a more platonic way) has grown a bit. I've also been noticing their 'assets' rarely, but they don't mean anything to me at all. I know I definitely have a much stronger sexual and romantic connection to guys and I'm sure of that because of previous experiences and stuff, but I'd just like to know what you guys think As mentioned in my older threads, I used to have a kind of fear of being 'straight' and it's mostly gone (it still worries me from time to time) - I feel much more open to choices right now. So I might be bisexual with a very strong preference to guys? Do you guys think it's happening because most of the guys in my school are obnoxious and I haven't had many chances with them (apart from a guy I've loved for about 18 months and still love)? Is it because I connect more to girls in the psychological way? I'm pretty sure that I want to keep things at a platonic level with girls (it feels a unnatural to be in a relationship with any). Anyway, I'm concrete sure and very secure that I do have strong sexual and romantic feelings for guys, but I'd just like your input on this. Thank you so much!
     
    #1 bwayinabox, May 26, 2015
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  2. sporn

    sporn Guest

    I get similar feelings. When I'm alone I feel like I really don't want to date men. When I meet a cool guy I think that maybe I could make an exception for him. Last time I tried that I turned out to not have any sexual or attraction to him.