I would like to ask the fully gay guys here a question that's been "bothering" me: Could you, personally, ever have a sexual relationship - and enjoy it - with a woman that has predominantly masculine traits, that is: - ripped to shreds - nice muscles The best examle for this would be a female bodybuilder, nice big muscles, ripped to shreds, maybe without "boobs" but "chest muscles" etc? I understand that homosexual men are attracted to biological males, BUT I'm just so damn curious of the "flexibility" of a gay man's sexuality
Dear lord no. What an awful idea. If anything, I think I would prefer a more 'boyish' sort of girl. But frankly, well. Reading your post actually made me pull a face in disgust at the idea.
But I thought that having muscles were considered a masculine trait, so I thought it could work? Because you would be surprised HOW MANY straight males are disgusted by girls that are considered "big" and "manly"... Most guys tend to prefer women that are "soft" and "shapely" for instance female pornstars
Well maybe it would for some. I only speak for myself. I don't really find women attractive at all. And the idea of a muscular developed one seems , well, gross to be frank. No offence to any women who may look like that. Horses for courses and all that.
I guess a sort of waif like, flat chested sort with cropped hair. I don't really know, tbh.:icon_redf
So it's a transwoman? And do gay men have sex with transwomen? Because I see tons of dudes on some sites that keep chatting with transwomen and making comments like "Oh I wanna suck your cock hun" etc etc
I don't think I could. Psychologically even though the woman has muscles and is buff and all, she's still a woman. Muscles are nice but I don't go crazy over it, it's not really my type.
You'd also find a lot of men (myself included) who aren't attracted to over-the-top protruding muscles. As to the "sleeping with masculine women" part, for me it'd definitely be a no. The idea of giving sexual pleasure to a woman is a turn-off, regardless if she looked like Sleeping Beauty or the Hulk. I'd assume this would apply to the vast majority of gay men.
I don't want to sound or be annoying, so sorry if I did or still do But why is it then that in gay porn most of the gay male pornstars are buff, well built, look like greek gods etc? That's what everyone thinks, that gay men just LOVE muscles
It may sound weird but I think your question is like asking straight people if they would be attracted to men with large curves. Many gay men may be attracted to muscles but may not be very attracted to a girl with muscles in the same way that straight men may not be interested in men with big bums. I suppose its the person as a whole rather than specific features that make people feel sexually attracted to them.
Well the simple answer would be sexual dimorphism. In simple words: this is when gay men/straight women usually love what is traditionally masculine features, and lesbians/straight men love what is traditionally feminine features. Women also LOVE muscles. You have gay men from all walks of life and not just what you see in porn movies. Unfortunately we don't have adequate representations of homosexuals in society which means we're always going to be stereotyped.
Thanks for the input, anon! @Schloss: I agree with your whole post and I totally get it. However, I disagree with the last stataement, "homosexuals don't have a proper representation in society, that's why they face a lot of stereotypes." I feel that's not true, as at least in America (mostly USA and Canada), fortunately, more and more people that we consider celebrities are coming out. Also bear in mind that America, as a continent, has become, I'd say, quite gay-friendly, especially North-America, and more specifically, Canada. I think people are beginning to realize, thanks to scientific data, that LGBTQ people represent and are, for some part, a biologic minority, and this has led to, at least in America, a significant decrease in anti-gay politics. However, sadly there are still countries like Uganda and Russia that are extremely anti-gay.
