Hi evreyone i recently saw a coming out video on YouTube and questioning my sexuality video also and now am fresking out I'm researching this so much and I have a girlfriend I've dated girls all my life and had encounters with men and I don't picture myself with a man I've never looked at guys sexually or looked at there butts till now I don't picture them naked I've always looked at gay stright and lesbain porn also transsexual and gotten to all of it I was takin advantage bye my neighbor when I was like 15 we started wrestling and then things happened and ever sense then I've had encounters with him but I feel awkward after and ashamed and just don't see myself that way I've had encounters with my buddies only a few but I've also dated more girls and had sex with them and fooled around like four okay and sex I just got into a relationship with an amazing woman and am considering marrying her I am lds and believe in god I also just would like some advice and am not sure I know I don't look at men sexually but recently I've looked at wondered and I'm scared j don't think I'm gay nor do I wanna marry a man or be with one romanticly I don't wanna offend anyone on here I am just looking for advice and help could oorn really screw your brain up and make you question yourself I wanna be a dad someday and have kids I'm just fresking out snd want my mind to stop thinking about this I've fantasizes about guys and easily gotten boners but also with woman aswell I've had sex with both over the years and pref a woman I just idk in confused and worried all the Time now this has been going on for weeks
Hey questioning sexuality is really hard. But a few things I can say don't stress about having kids or being a father, you can do that with a man or a woman. I guess the question is how much pleasure do you get from being with a man or being with a woman? Not being able to picture yourself with a man could be societal conditioning or it could be because you are straight and are into girls but I totally understand where you are coming from as I have been questioning my sexuality recently also and it can be really scary. Know that as a community we support you and only you can decide if you want to marry a man or a woman. I'd go with who you prefer to sleep with more as you don't want to just marry a woman because it is easier in societal eyes and then divorce her in 10 years because you like a man but you also don't want to start dating men unless you prefer to be with men more than women and yes I realise that bisexual means you may not necessarily prefer one over the other, if you enjoy encounters with both then I guess it just depends on which person you meet that you could see yourself with for the rest of your life. Good luck.
Hi I know these things are worrying. Have you considered bisexual. Anyway if you need to talk I'm here for you
Thank you guys so much for the advice I'm straight could be bi I do prefer a woman I have had encounters with both and i like both I just pref woman and I think that's not what i want i always freak out about things and over react my first love just broke up with me a few months ago and I have a girlfriend now maybe I'm just afraid of being hurt again. And scared of it maybe I'm just trying to move on from my ex because my love for her was so strong and I am with my new girlfriend now and she's amazing and I could be bi I appreciate your guys help I truely do
"don't think I'm gay, nor do I want to marry a man or be with one romantically." I think your answer is right there and you said it yourself. If you don't want to be with the same sex, then you are not gay.
