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I think I'm Gay....ish

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Kodo, Jun 1, 2015.

  1. Kodo

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    Location:
    California
    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    So right now I identify as asexual. This is wholly accurate.

    The only thing is, I'm attracted to men? It's not what you think. I'm still asexual in the sense that I do not like sex or anything sexual nor do I objectify people in that way. Got it? Now, moving on.

    I do, however, find certain men to be attractive. As in, I am magnetically drawn to them either by their looks, face, mannerisms, personality, charisma, even intelligence. I don't know what sexual attraction feels like, but this seems like every other kind of attraction minus the sexy-wexy stuff.

    But I could not see myself romantically with a guy though... But maybe I could, just I've never had a boyfriend so I don't really know. I just like them is all. On the other hand, I could see myself romantically with a girl though I am not particularly physically/sensually attracted to women.

    SO maybe the correct label would be pseudo-gay panromantic asexual trans*guy?

    Eh, this is complicated. Anyone else experience something similarly?