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Can you be Bi but prefer the idea of being with a man?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by steve123a, Jun 5, 2015.

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  1. steve123a

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    Hi,

    I'm currently confused about my sexuality, i thought i was gay for years and now I'm not so sure.

    Im coming to realise that maybe i shouldn't worry and when the right person comes along, regardless of gender, i will know.

    But at the moment it is really stressing me out, I've always liked men, but that seems to be waining maybe due to this anxiety?

    But my question really is, is it possible to be Bi (ish) and prefer the thought of being with men?

    ---------- Post added 5th Jun 2015 at 03:38 PM ----------

    also, i should add i get attracted to me in real life, not just in porn where as women its more just porn and not really ever real life
     
    #1 steve123a, Jun 5, 2015
  2. Chiroptera

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    Yes, that's my case.

    I tend to like men more than woman, but i don't feel the label "gay" fits me, because i still feel a decent amount of attraction towards woman, and i would be able to live a happy and complete life with one, even though i think about men more often (when thinking about my future).

    That's why i think the label "Bisexual" fits me better.
     
    #2 Chiroptera, Jun 5, 2015
  3. PatrickUK

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    Sure it is. Many people who are bi have a clear preference. It's even possible for people to identify as gay and still have a faint attraction to the opposite sex, so try not to overthink this situation. I know it's hard when questions like these come into your mind, but it's really not unusual or unreasonable.
     
    #3 PatrickUK, Jun 5, 2015
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    I like the part referenced above.

    I have also found helpful, journeying past attractions/feelings and analyzing. (I have done this.) Then I ask myself what does this mean? The facts speak for themselves - I'm gay. So when the doubt dragon wields it's head I draw a line in the sand and take a stand.
     
    #4 brainwashed, Jun 5, 2015
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