I've grown up in an environment of very conservative Christians and actually sided with them for years because I didn't know any better because that's all I'd ever been taught. Anyways, when I realized I was bi, I was filled with dread, because I know that when I come out to my family and friends (if I ever do) I'll be rejected and ridiculed. So my question is, is it possible to be bi, but then only go out with guys in order to appear straight to everyone I love and care about? If I did that, would it make me not bi if I have the feelings but don't act on them?